Now that the Dems have taken over the majority in Congress, there is alot of talk regarding getting out of Iraq. One argument has been that if the U.S. leaves now, chaos will ensue. Well, considering the current deputy health minister, Ammar al-Saffarwas abucted today, I’d like to know what is going on now.
There are others who cite stats about how many Iraqi civilians have been killed (around 50K), the cost per day in US dollars (I think it’s $1M per minute), and how many US soldiers have died (now approaching 2,900). The number I find most interesting is the less the 1% of our American population, in the armed services, doing the bidding of our President (for the benefit of the top 2%), and the effects on their families, of which mine is one.
My son enlisted in the Army in August 2004, lured by the promise of a $9K early-signing bonus, and the security of housing and medical care. Shortly after basic training, where his MOS was cooking, he was shipped off to Iraq to join the 4th Infantry Division. He never cooked a day (that was left to Haliburton), and was given “a dead man’s gun” to go on convoys. Fortunately, he was there for only two months, and the timing was such that he was there shortly after the first wave of hositilities ended, and before the second (still in effect began).
When he returned stateside and tried to redeem his bonus, the Army told him they had no evidence of such a promise. This began an 18-month struggle, of submitting copies of the original contract, involving our Congressmember (who initiated a Congressional Inquiry), demotions, harassment and abuse. Finally, after two years of service, the Army decided he was not worth the hassle and gave him an administrative release, also known as “failure to adapt.”
With no place else to go, he and his wife moved in with us, until they could find work and save enough money to get their own place, which took a little over a year. For the most part, I referred to him as one of the fortunate ones — he didn’t have to kill anyone, nor did he witness any atrocities.
His unit was redeployed to Iraq just before last Christmas. He kept in touch with a few guys who usually had little news to report — at least that he was willing to share. I continued to think he was one of the fortunate few, and had emeged relatively unscathed from the experience.
A few weeks ago, he received a phone call from an Army buddy who expressed an interest in coming out here to live. The unit had finished their second tour of Iraq, and he was due for discharge. Unfortunately, along with this greeting came news of a fellow soldier who had been killed by an IED (Improvised Explosive Device — a another word for a hand-made bomb). My son was at work when he received the call, and it set him off to no end. His co-workers and supervisors are part of the 99% who are not serving in Iraq, and have no experience dealing with the ripple effects of the war. Fortunately, his supervisor cut him a break (often missing in the Army) and excused him from his work area to process the information. Later, he shared with me how “Smithie “(made-up name) was one of the best people he had ever known. “She was really great.”
No one escapes the atrocities of the Iraq war. For my son, each time his unit is redeployed he will wonder whom of his friends is not coming home. For the families, each time they say good-bye, they can only pray it is not the last time they will see each other. And then, when these soldiers are discharged, the baggage they bring often destroys their own marriages and sometimes results in them ending their own lives.
No matter what happens in Iraq, there will be chaos. The longer our government sends our children, siblings, aunts, uncles, and friends into Iraq, more families stateside will be subject to chaos and unintended cruelty and neglect. President Bush often says “We are fighting them there, so we won’t have to fight them here.” It looks to me like it’s turning into fighting them over there is fracturing our own families here. 1% of Americans and their families have already paid a high enough price for Bush’s blunder. It’s time to stop the carnage overseas before the hemorrhaging from within our homes begins.